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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just wish the people starting these threads would just share what their real relationship issues are instead of just complaining about a made up holiday.[/quote]

With empathy, I think that someone who is upset about Valentine's Day going unobserved by their spouse may still be struggling to see what the real issues are in their marriage. They are fixating on this thing that ultimately doesn't matter because some part of them hoped their husband would make some special gesture that would make up for whatever it is they are actually upset about. But they don't want to think about that stuff. It's easier to be mad they didn't get flowers or candy or jewelry or whatever on Valentine's Day. People break up over stuff like this and then later the man is like "can you believe my wife was so mad about Valentine's Day?" even though also they had not had sex in 8 months. But that's a hard conversation to have so some people will look anywhere but the obvious place.[/quote]

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