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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m still confused at OP’s first post. How exactly is he bi? What actions is he taking to suggest that? Is he going to the gym and comparing himself to other guys? If so, that’s not bi lol that’s normal.

Or is he actively looking at gay porn and talking about wanting to get it on with another man? Because if so, yea that’s bi.

For the record, yes, bisexual men exist. Get out of here with the “if he likes men, he is 100% gay” homophobia. [/quote]

I’m a heterosexual woman and I don’t doubt that bisexual men exist at all. I have known quite a few. The thing is, even if they like me and are attracted to me, they are still too gay for me. I do not want to expose myself to HIV or other diseases that are more common among men who have sex with men than they are with men who only have sex with women. It is very dangerous to be a woman married to a bisexual man who is secretly acting out in his desires for sex with other men.

If I were the OP, I would be very scared about my hunches and also very vigilant about protecting myself.[/quote]

To me, it is not clear how any bisexual can stay married in an exclusive (non-open) marriage (to either gender).[/quote]

How so? My DH is straight. I’m sure there are other women out there he finds attractive, but to the best of my knowledge he isn’t banging them.

I guess if someone is bi there are more people they will find attractive, but I don’t think that necessarily means they’re more likely to cheat.[/quote]

The whole definition of bi is someone who has sex with both genders.[/quote]
Nope, it’s someone who experiences sexual attraction to both sexes. You don’t need to act on those urges to be bi.[/quote]

So a bisexual in a marriage has to repress half their desire, while a straight person does not.[/quote]

No, a straight married person has to repress their desire to have sex with more than one person for the rest of their life.  That’s more than half for most people. [/quote]

As a bisexual myself, I'm going to disagree.

I'm married to an opposite sex spouse. With whom I have sex regularly. That satisfies my desires for heterosexual sex and for partners of the opposite gender.

My desire for homosexual sex and a partner of the same gender must be squashed...if I am to remain faithful.[/quote]

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