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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m still confused at OP’s first post. How exactly is he bi? What actions is he taking to suggest that? Is he going to the gym and comparing himself to other guys? If so, that’s not bi lol that’s normal.

Or is he actively looking at gay porn and talking about wanting to get it on with another man? Because if so, yea that’s bi.

For the record, yes, bisexual men exist. Get out of here with the “if he likes men, he is 100% gay” homophobia. [/quote]

I’m a heterosexual woman and I don’t doubt that bisexual men exist at all. I have known quite a few. The thing is, even if they like me and are attracted to me, they are still too gay for me. I do not want to expose myself to HIV or other diseases that are more common among men who have sex with men than they are with men who only have sex with women. It is very dangerous to be a woman married to a bisexual man who is secretly acting out in his desires for sex with other men.

If I were the OP, I would be very scared about my hunches and also very vigilant about protecting myself.[/quote]

To me, it is not clear how any bisexual can stay married in an exclusive (non-open) marriage (to either gender).[/quote]

Agree.

Wouldn’t that be like killing off half of your sexual identity forever? [/quote]

You and the PP who  talked about being unable to see how "any bisexual can stay married in an exclusive non-open marriage" must both think that people simply are compelled to act out their sexual desires. Do you think that since bisexuals are attractd to a wider variety of potential partners, the pool of potential affair partners is larger for them? Yes, it surely is, but that does not mean they lack the love, respect, trust, self-control and morality to stay faithful to one person if they choose. [/quote]

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