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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First of all, stop excusing and enabling your DH's behavior with cutesie names like "absent minded professor". Your DH is overwhelmed, and so are you. Does your DH have ASD?[/quote] Op here. No. We are both overwhelmed but that’s life-we have young kids, a house, careers, etc. it’s overwhelming but those parameters are what they are.[/quote] But you are excusing his behavior, which I reasonably presume is making his behavior spiral down, not get better. You have four kids, did you think it would be easy? Is he depressed? [/quote] Don’t blame her for her husband’s behavior! OP, sit him down and say he has to carry more weight. He can use charts or reminders in his phone, whatever to help him remember. Look him dead in the eye and say this time you mean it, you are fed up. If he takes no action, meet with a lawyer and make a plan. [/quote] Maybe he was relaxing and thought the kids had an ounce of self sufficiency and that she was crazy and knew better than to intervene because of her overall attitude? [/quote]
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