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[quote=Anonymous]I would definitely get therapy over this and I would also hire a designer. Tell her a budget but also what she would recommend if you were to do it in phases. Sit down with your husband and discuss which options he likes and how to proceed with the phases or to do it all at once. My husband is kind of the same way where he really does not like change or being put out for anything..... But at some point it's either going to be the way I want it or we're going to come up with a compromise that we can both live with. Because like you said the default is nothing and that means he gets what he wants. Therapy told him that that wasn't fair and he was using that against me in a variety of ways. He is now much more open to discussing projects and things that we both want[/quote]
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