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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The issue is that he didn’t tell you he needs time alone or to decompress. Why? 
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Because some partners don’t react well to their partner saying “I love you, and I need 30 minutes without anyone interacting with me - including you”.  See the “triffling” poster above.

Most likely OP’s DH believes OP would react that way.  In fact, he may have been dropping hints, asking her to give him some alone time at home.

Unfortunately my husband is like that - I need a few hours a week at home alone with minimal work demands.  It doesn’t happen that much anymore because my husband the rarely leaves the house these days.

He now knows I need that, but trying to get him to not that it personally was (is?) haaaard. [/quote]

+1.  My DH smothers me and can’t seem to understand I need time alone and it has nothing to do with him. I find myself going out of my way to get alone time in weird ways and would consider sitting alone in a parking lot if I could get away with it. [/quote]

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