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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We just don't want it that much.
When people ask id say that I would like to be married.

But the quiet part is. I don't want it enough to settle for less than what I'm s ,100% attracted to. I have no interest in putting up with what I consider BS that my friends do from their husbands.
That would just end in divorce.
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I had friends who really, really wanted to get married. They went on first date after first date (some of them several hundred first dates) until they found the right person. Some never found the right person but settled at around 36-38 in order to have kids. One found the right person in her late 40s. Some are still looking as we near 50. 
I made up my mind early into adulthood that I didn't want to spend my life looking for a husband. (I'm also not a very high energy person and when I have a full time job am not able to do much with my free time besides basic self care). I also wasn't very impressed with the men I met, particularly compared to the men in my family. I've always been open to relationships and marriage, but simply put, between having high standards, being happy as a single woman, and not wanting to work that hard at it, I haven't found one. I also hear so much complaining from my married friends and get hit on by so many married men that it makes me apprehensive. [/quote]

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