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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why not have a second lunch with your dad on Friday? Problem solved [/quote] This is the obvious solution. You asked your mom first. Having said that, mom would be on the receiving end of a conversation about moving on. I would not be indulging this "can't be in the same room" sh-- going forward. We had a similar conversation the FOUR sets of our divorced parents (some involving infidelity). We simply were done haveing 4 birthdays, Christmases, etc. etc. We'd be having ONE. And you can come or not. But if you do, you will behave or be asked to leave. Their sh-- is their sh--. I may not like/approve of things they have done to one another, but barring abuse or violence or something really horrible, they are still our parents. (And for infidelity, they do get some slack for moving past it but, at some point, you have ot move past it. Doesn't mean forgive. Or forget. But cope.)[/quote]
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