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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My dd was ditched by her group tonight. One of the girls who she knows but isn’t close to invited all the other girls to her house after tot. There wasn’t enough room in their cars so the one friend looked at my dd and said “you’re headed home now, right?” Teen girls suck. My dd is so upset she doesn’t want to face these girls at school tomorrow.[/quote]

What would have been the preferable alternative?[/quote]

Not pp but - 
Go to a place within walking distance.
Ask another parent to drive and split up into two cars. 
Trick or treat until 8:30 or 9 then everyone goes to their own home since it's a school night for most kids.
Hosting girl could have just a couple friends over so it's just not one single girl left out. Other girls could make their own plans or just go home without feeling like they are the only ones not invited [/quote]

The problem here is you’re thinking like an adult - not a teen/tween. There is not one kid on this planet that would say “you know what, let’s just all go home so no one feels left out.”[/quote]

DP - maybe not go home, but there are absolutely kids who pay attention to these issues and don't want people to be left out.  These kids help the others find a way to include people.

PP, I am so sorry that happened to your daughter.  [/quote]

Some people are too sensitive. I see middle aged women who still get upset about this. I am friends with this group of women where sometimes smaller groups get together. One woman gets jealous and called out people on not including her. We are in our mid forties. Same group there is another woman who has to feel like she is on top of the friend group or she also gets jealous and mad. It is really ridiculous.

My kids have many friends. Some are closer than others. Sometimes they are included. Other times they are not. We do our fair share of hosting and planning. Sometimes it is a large group. Sometimes it is one person. This is for both kids AND my adult friends.[/quote]

Agree. I’m not down with 100% inclusivity 100% of the time. [/quote]

If you're inviting all but one or 2 people from a group, whether your 4 or 40 yo, you're an ahold. Sorry, you are. UNLESS there is a VERY good reason why someone would not want to or shouldn't be invited (like, the subject-matter of the outing would be contrary to a core belief or something). [/quote]

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