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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Dan Savage once said that part of being a good partner is staying within 10% of the weight you were when you met. I've always made that a goal for myself.[/quote]

Why is that part of being a good partner?

I don’t get it.  My husband is unhappy with my weight.  I have gained about 20% of what I weighed when we got married (160 lbs - 190 lbs ; 5’8”).   I gained it during pregnancies, but my youngest is in fourth grade.

But we have a good sex life, and I know he finds me attractive.  I am overall active (just ran four miles this morning and went on a long hike in the woods with DD yesterday).  My health is good.

I find it uncomfortable to lose weight and maintain it.  I don’t really want to live that way.  I don’t get what the big deal is.  [/quote]

You sound so together!!

He is lucky. [/quote]

Well, you both are talking to somebody who takes advice from a shock jock.[/quote]

Shock jock? What thr hell are you talking about?[/quote]

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