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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You two sit together and make a pact to be intentionally kind, fair and helpful. No keeping scores, just try to be a good team.[/quote] DP. Yeah, tried that. Just does not work with someone with weak executive function. Structure works. Good intentions do not. [/quote] Good intentions make all the difference, structure only helps execute them. Unless one understands and feels genuinely concerned about unfairly overburdening their partner, nothing would change.[/quote] So for the first time in their life they will simply *feel* bad for dumping on their wife and suddenly function like a true adult??!! Ok. [/quote] No. Thats why you date and live with one you intend to share a life, kids, home, finances and chores with. You make informed decision of if they'll make a caring partner or not. You may decide their shortcomings are worth it or not.[/quote]
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