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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For me, having him as a good friend helps because I still get to hang out with him and get his attention (flirting) but at the same time I can see how it is prolonging the feelings. I can't imagine cutting him off though that would just be so sad (I hope time will curb those feelings so that I feel friendship only). I am prepared for the day he may get a girlfriend.[/quote]

PP here and this wasn’t a work thing, he’s someone I know from my social group. I can imagine it’s 10x worse with women he’s around for work out in business thousands of miles away from home.

Anyway, I had always read on this thread, no you’re not special, he does this with every woman! And I really thought all that was BS, that posters just didn’t know what this guy and I had, it was a real connection. And then I saw him do it with another woman right in front of me. It really snapped me back to reality and I’m avoiding this guy like the plague now, for many reasons. So the moral of the story is, if everyone is saying something, believe the collective experience.

I posted a bit up thread that the way I got over my crush was by witnessing him flirt really obviously with another woman at an event we were all at. For so long I thought the is guy and I had something unspoken - the glances, the stares, etc. And perhaps we did, but he obviously has this with many other women as well. I know he travels a lot for work, so it just hit me like a ton of bricks that he is probably out cheating on his wife all the time. Not that I’m blameless here for crushing on a married man. But I really thought I was special. I’m not. [/quote]

This is what another poster touched upon earlier in the thread…these cute charming guys who are successful and make women they work with feel special…they usually do it to multiple women because it benefits them to have adoring female employees/colleagues/clients and move on to the next one quickly if you leave. [/quote][/quote]

PP here and this wasn’t a work thing, he’s someone I know from my social group. I can imagine it’s 10x worse with women he’s around for work out in business thousands of miles away from home.

Meant to post my response here

Well different for everyone I suppose. I am definitely special to him, I'm his closest friend.
We have wonderful times together.[/quote]

But you have no idea whether you’re the only one or not. [/quote]

I do lol!  
If he goes on a date (rarely) he tells me about it. Nothing to hide cause we are friends, sometimes get cuddly.[/quote]

Girl, he be lyin to you [/quote]

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