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[quote=Anonymous][quote=ThatSmileyFaceGuy][quote=Anonymous]I disagree that offering to split the bill is game-playing. Nobody owes you a free meal. I mean, are you going to just stand there and wait for the dude to open the door, or hand him the bill when it arrives at the table? Of course not. But you can still be disappointed when the guy isn't chivalrous if you prefer your man to be that way.[/quote]

It's only game playing when like the OP you never have an intention of really splitting the check [/quote]

I stand by my point. She said it was a turn-off. I think that's fair. I really can't imagine just sitting back and whistling when the check comes, just waiting for the guy to offer to buy my meal when he'd really rather go dutch. To me, that feels like bad manners because he doesn't owe me a meal. But I DO prefer the guy to pay, just like I want him to open the door for me. It makes me feel special. Manners can be pretty subjective thing, though.

As a guy, would it be a turn-off to you if the girl just sits back and lets you pay without even blinking?[/quote]

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