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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My teens know that dating is not allowed. They are focussed on academics, ECs, social life etc. They are not latchkey kids [b]and our lives revolve around our children. [/b] So, no boyfriend or girlfriend until they are in college. Now, since we are not White and come from a culture of arranged marriages, it is quite possible that our children are unable to find someone to marry on their own. Well, the solution to that is that if they have great career and have a good income, there is no lack of choices for them. Finding a good match and having it all is not a pipe dream. But, first - study hard and make something of your life. Nurture the friends and relatives in your life. Treat the world well. [/quote] Funny thing is you think this is a good thing and time and time again it is linked to immature growth, lack of street smarts, poor autonomy, severe lack of communication skills, and extremely high anxiety and silent depression. But straight A's and no sex is all that matters!! Great job :roll: [/quote] Boo, it is your kids who are suicidal, have mental illness, fail to launch, become onlyFans stars, make minimum wages and fail in adulting. There is no morality and decency is how they are raised. My kids may be slow in forming romantic relationships and take their time in becoming sexually active , but as a result they excel in life. They succeed in education, career, marriage, raising kids, having a good social life and becoming financially successful. Statistics are available about our success stories if you dare to Google it. Also Google divorce rates, addiction, domestic violence and suicide rates. In every measure, your kids are failing. What is horrifying is that you are still concerned about making sure that they get their sexual jollies because “it feels so good”. . [/quote]
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