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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I personally think my friend who withheld sex from her DH for 9 years was worse than her DH who stepped out after 7 of them. She wouldn’t go to therapy when he asked, didn’t engage in conversations with him about it when he tried, and just took it off the table. That’s abominable. [/quote]

Then divorce her.

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You know, if life is good otherwise and you have kids, it feels “shallow” to divorce over a lack of sex.  I followed this line of thinking during the sexless part of my marriage and had an emotional affair but could not go through with it.[/quote]

No. Sex is the basis of all romantic relationships. What a man gives up when he gets married is something most men value above nearly everything: the ability to have sex with many women. If his wife cuts off sex, the marriage is over, and he is released from the rest of the contract. [/quote]

Well, I am a woman and I agree, but having an affair just didn’t comport with who I want to be.  I couldn’t sleep, couldn’t eat, couldn’t function at work, and that was only while sexting with someone.  Fortunately my marriage is better now and DH has resigned himself to having sex.  Poor man![/quote]

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