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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] This statement from you. They are still helping. It's just not helping you at that time. Just because it didn't help you at that time, doesn't mean they weren't helping through their own actions. It may have been misguided but this is how they tried to help you. "At some point, you are not helping you are trying to control another person with your expectations. Or you are enabling that person to expect support when they need to experience the consequences and pain in order to actually learn for themselves."[/quote] Is this about a gold star? You need acknowledgement for your “help”? Which is exactly the point I made earlier…people are mostly “helping” in order to make themselves feel better rather than actually offering the person what they need. [/quote] NP Wtf? No. Dude, get over yourself. [/quote]
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