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[quote=Anonymous]Op, very sorry for your loss. is your sister disabled or something? She works, how much does she makes? your mom has social security (and survivor benefit’s possibly) and there’s no mortgage so I’m wondering how the house would be more expensive as upkeep than rent? Obviously there is cc debt but what are they spending on? At a certain point you need to detach; you can’t solve their issues if they don’t want to accept your solutions. The best egg of. C 650k will only generate about 30k a year gross which isn’t a huge chunk . But what’s the plan for your sister after your mom goes? I would weigh assisted living for your mom with your sister making her own way (but not caring for mom); sister and mom In apartment with sister helping part time with moms care; them staying in current Home (what care/how much does your mom need now)? There are usually no good choices but hopefully things will calm down a bit. [/quote]
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