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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband is nine years younger than I am, handsome, and a former college athlete who definitely has not let himself go. When I met him, his bank account was the last thing on my mind and I haven't thought about it much since.  After he finished grad school he took a lifestyle job instead of one with a big salary.  We're very middle-class and our life would be different in a lot of ways if he'd taken the high salary.  I've never had a moment of regret.  People in this thread have said that money solves a lot of problems, and I'm sure that's true, but having a hot young husband makes your life so enjoyable (so VERY enjoyable) that many problems either don't come up or don't seem to matter.

I feel like women still face a lot of stigma for prioritizing looks and attraction the way that I did, but it worked out for me.  In a long-term relationship, physical connection matters a lot.  We've been together for 15 years and married for 13; many of my friends who gave me a hard time about how young he was or how I was only dating him for fun (admittedly true at the very beginning) are now divorced or complain about their husbands constantly.  A bank account can't pick you up and carry you to the bedroom.[/quote]

What are you going to do when you are 60 and he’s 51 and enters midlife crisis ? I’ve known couples like that most divorced by then [/quote]

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