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Reply to "My good friend’s husband is cheating do I tell her??"
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[quote=Anonymous] My ex was awful (and cheating) -- but the whole situation also shed a lot of light on what my friends thought of me since I didn't leave earlier, confront, control or whatever they wanted. They suspected - but didn't know anything for sure and would try to confront me with their suspicions. Some were really frustrated and angry with me and I felt just so much shame all the time. I know they had best intentions - but I just really need to work through the process in my own way (with a paid professional). When things did come to light, I didn't go to these friends. I really confided in people who were non-judgmental but empathetic. I think it's anonymous email. After that, I think be prepared for the friend to be in shock/denial/anger. I think if you want to stay a friend, you try to be a non-judgmental supportive sounding board. It's not as cut-and-dry where you can just ask yourself what you would do in the situation. It's tied to so much else. Thank you for trying to protect your friend - but there are limitations.[/quote]
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