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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Going to the wedding of my husband’a cousin in a few months. Declined invitation to bridal shower, the invitation for which included an ask for monetary gifts. On their wedding website, guests are asked to make a monetary contribution in lieu of gifts. I am very turned off by this - they are both in their thirties, work full-time, and seem to be doing just fine financially. The ask makes me not want to give them anything at all. I find this beyond gauche. Am I being unreasonable in being turned off?[/quote] You're a judgmental, spiteful harpie, since you asked. This is a request, which they need apparently, not a demand. Give the money. Don't. Either way, take your judgment and shove it. As for "seem to be doing fine financially", if you haven't seen the financials, it's really none of your effing business. And you DON'T know.[/quote]
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