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[quote=Anonymous]None of you people have the "right" answer. There is no "right" answer here. And some of the posts on this thread are appallingly harsh. OP is not a bad person for giving up the child or for not wanting a relationship with her BD. This is a situation full of complexity. And the BD's wanting to know does not trump the OPs wanting not to have a relationship. It just doesn't, regardless of how you or I would feel in her shoes (or think we would know). What I would say to you, OP, is that if you do approach her, you have then opened the proverbial can of worms. It is incumbent on you at that point to tread compassionately and openly. If you're not willing to commit, best leave well enough alone. That's just my opinion. [/quote]
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