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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Custody agreements are unenforceable. What are you going to do, sedate the child to transport them if they refuse to go see the other parent? Physically grab them?[/quote] As a parent you enforce the schedule just like you do school and homework. [/quote] If the kid doesn't want to do that in HS you're not really enforcing crap. You set the foundation a lot earlier and then hope and pray their mental health sustains them through HS and adulthood, but you're not really enforcing much in HS, especially last two years. I am most certainly never keeping my ex from seeing my son. If it ever came to him not wanting to see his dad, I'm not risking my relationship with my son to make sure he has visitation with his dad. Come get your son and make him if you think you can. If he doesn't want to see his dad, there is a good reason, and I'm most certainly not it. Besides, I've done ALL of the raising (meals, washing, clearing, comforting, staying up at night when DS is sick, therapy, drs appts) and if you can't even get along with your child during your every other weekend "fun time" I got nothing for you. [/quote]
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