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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The people there were scared to speak up. They weren’t even able to focus on you. They only could worry about themself. Years out you factor little into their memory but their feelings at the time do. That’s what they remember. It’s always hard to accept you aren’t the center of everyone else’s attention but only the center of your own.

and btw reporting someone to CPS and getting them investigated is pretty easy. If they raged at you there is an excellent chance they do the same to their kids and much worse. Even if nothing comes of the situation the investigation itself will be worse time in their life than you experienced and oh and you can also drop a rumor about them being investigated so it gets spread around. 
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You do not want to do this, as you could get charged with filing a false report.  I know someone who did this to a neighbor and they were charged with filing a false report. The person who made the false report ended up having a record, and not the person with children. It is relatively easy to prove. You don't want to go there. [/quote]

OP here. I would never do this because it could harm children. I might wish this person had their children taken away because they deserve to be punished for their actions (in fact I might think it is best for their kids precisely because I know what they are capable of doing to someone over whom they have a lot of power and control), but I would worry about the impact on innocents of going through that kind of investigation, potentially being moved into the foster care system where abuse is quite common, etc. So I would never do this and I would advise others not to consider it.

Also, if it's so easy to report someone to CPS there would be nothing to stop this person from doing that to me, and in fact I would be fearful of giving them this idea. Calling CPS out of vengeance just seems like a good way to invite someone to call CPS on you to get back at you for calling CPS on them. That's the trap of revenge. In the end the only way to stop it is to "be the bigger person." But let's all just acknowledge being the bigger person is hard and not very fun. Worth it, still not super enjoyable.[/quote]

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