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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here’s what might not occur to you first timers:

1. It might be nice for the grandparents (all grandparents—not just the mother’s parents) to pop by the hospital for a quick visit the next day. Nice photo op, and bonus points if they bring the new parents something to eat. (That’s what my parents and in-laws did; we staggered the visits.)

2. Your husband might quickly feel overwhelmed once you get home. He might actually need the help of his parents. Extra hands are usually helpful…particularly if they stay elsewhere but show up with good food and treats for the new parents.

3. You will be running on adrenaline the first week or so…and the baby will sleep a lot. Then you’ll feel exhausted once reality kicks in. You’ll want someone to cuddle the baby while you shower or nap. And so will your husband.

4. Don’t underestimate how exhausted and stressed your husband will be. Let him decide what kind of support he needs.

5. Don’t draw a distinction between your parents and his parents. Everyone should be treated with love. [/quote]

Good grief! This is the worst advice ever. Just let the grandparents pop by the hospital for a photo op??? I can’t imagine anything more horrible. Oh and then afterwards the mom who just gave birth should be mindful that her husband is not too stressed and probably really wants his mom. My husband would have gouged his eyes out if he had to deal with his mom on top of little sleep. The boomers are certainly out tonight! [/quote]

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