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[quote=Anonymous][quote] Again, purposefully misreading the post - or perhaps you just don't read well. The point was not that my DH does not do anything for me. It's that I don't DEMAND it nor do I cry or throw fits if he does not buy flowers or chocolates. If you cannot see the difference, that is precisely the problem. Spouses who are demanding rarely have happy marriages. And if you demand that your spouse drive you to the airport at midnight after he has been on call for 18 hrs, you're an ass. Sorry, but you are. I'm going to assume that you are a millennial or GenZ. That's usually where I see so much self absorbed behavior.[/quote] Thou dost protest too much! Did you stop to read OPs reply that her BF is the one that brought up the VDay topic? He sucks. As far as GenZ goes, DS is away at college and sent his very new gf chocolate covered strawberries, flowers, and some other rando gift. He set it up so she’d receive a gift 3 days in a row. He also asked his dad to pick up flowers that he ordered for me. DH brought them home with fancy chocolate. He didn’t tell me the flowers were from our son lmao. There was no card. I also buy them gifts. Made a lovely dinner. DH opened a great bottle of wine, and I asked him if we’re only friends, not lovers. The bud vase held two white roses and two yellow roses. DH hit the deck and forgot to tell me they were from DS. I sent a red heart text to DS and told him dad claimed the flowers for a few hours. It was pretty funny. DH was always go big or go home. Not at all my style. He’s finally toned it down. DS knows the deal. Such a sweet young man, but maybe a bit over the top on new gf. [/quote]
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