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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You’re on maternity leave to take care of the baby.  Your husband is back at work.  If you want to split nighttime feedings with him then return to work.

You’re likely subconsciously upset he’s back at work and has more of his old life than you do. [/quote]

This is a weird take. OP is still bringing in her salary if she’s on leave. Why is she supposed to go back to work to get DH to pull his weight at home if she’s still pulling her weight financially?[/quote]

She is on maternity leave and can nap during the day regardless of the salary.

I think the more immediate question is if he plans to help out more once she goes back to the office. Have you two discussed night feedings then?[/quote]

She has already said she can’t nap due to pumping. This is pretty common for a five week old while building supply.

Honestly OPs husband is a dud, but I think she’s not going to realize that until she has another kid and years of disappointment behind her. [/quote]

She's also said she doesn't have supply issues.

And she doesn't nap because she has to clean pump parts and cook.[/quote]

OP said she has supply issues.[/quote]

Op changes her story every other page[/quote]

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