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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Posts like OP’s always stir up such venom and sanctimony.  The suggestion that a cheating spouse can’t love their kids or be a good parent is ridiculous.  Another poster hit it right on the head: most cheaters don’t ever think they will get caught, are compartmentalizing and the parenting part of them is often doing just fine.  It’s only when they get caught that there’s a problem.

No one knows what’s going on in anyone else’s head, and no one is in any position to judge anyone else’s parenting simply because there’s infidelity in the marriage.

It’s interesting.  I follow the college admissions forum and I see a lot more damage being done to children there than the theoretical damage that can be done by a cheating spouse.  [/quote]

You are ridiculous. Obviously OP has problems with this. You don't get to just do whatever you want with no effects on others. We get it that cheaters don't think that it matters that much. That's why they do it. But non cheaters do not think this way in the slightest. There were reasons for the vows people made. It was the main reason for being in the marriage verses just being in a relationship. If these are the main reasons why you are in a marriage, of course it affects you.[/quote]

Except we’re not talking about what non-cheaters think.  We’re talking here about whether cheaters can love their kids and be good parents.  Which they obviously can. [/quote]

Umm no. We are talking about OP who is the non-cheater.[/quote]

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