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[quote=Anonymous]OP, if you were a 3rd party to this and found out your son's playmate's Father took naked photos of young men without their permission how would you feel about having your children anywhere near them?

I think what you are looking for is validation that your inlaws should have let you known. It seems, frankly, you know exactly where they stand. They have told you that they take the side of this cousin and the cousin is welcome at their home any time. You are also free to do as you wish. I personally think it's great that they are supporting the victim and people who supported the victim. In no way should they be shunning this person.

Grooming, is very subtle. My husband had a predator in his workplace. This guy groomed adult women in the workplace. He was also married but told no one in the workplace of his marriage! The person doing the grooming always has the ability to gaslight anyone involved that it wasn't what it clearly was.

This is a HUGE red flag that your husband will reoffend. Offenders must take FULL accountability of their actions in order to be able to change. The fact that he has you convinced he was somehow a victim tells me that if he hasn't already he will reoffend again.[/quote]

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