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[quote=Anonymous]Your dh’s actions got him convicted. It likely would have happened whether the cousin told the police about the letters or not (if that is what happened). You cannot blame the cousin for your dh’s conviction.

Did the cousin inform the school that your dh shouldn’t be working there? Again, your dh shouldn’t have been working there and I’m sure your dh knew that.

Sounds like even your dh wants to move on from blaming the cousin. Your dh is potentially taking ownership of his actions. The cousin did nothing wrong and did everything right. You don’t have to like it. Maybe you haven’t made peace with what your dh did (understandably). Maybe seeing the cousin brought a lot of it back bc you are seeing that the cousin is actually not a monster.

You have a very hard road ahead if you are going to draw these bright lines but you want everyone else to give your dh the benefit of the doubt. Yet you cannot put yourself in the position of the cousin and think of how he felt knowing his sister was getting multiple letters from your dh. And sure, the sister came up with the idea of writing letters. All young kids write letters these days. [/quote]

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