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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have a child who is violent. I remember the shock I felt when it started. I wish that we had the perfect reactions - but I’m not really sure what that would have been. Over time and through a lot of medical treatment with my son, we got better at anticipating and avoiding. I say this to point out that you have a child that crossed a hard line. Your husband may have reacted badly. It’s time to discuss bringing the professionals and, in a calmer time, discuss boundaries. But there is a lot of heat of the moment reactions that will never be perfect. And everyone who is now saying run and divorce probably don’t have violent kids. But you do. [/quote] An 8 year old fighting his little brother is not necessarily a violent child. Boys fight, you have to make sure they are safe. You don’t do that by putting your hands on someone’s neck. Ever. [/quote] I have boys and I grew up with all brothers. Kids fighting is typical. Kids swinging at adults crosses the line. That was the inciting factor. [/quote] +1[/quote]
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