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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is no way to change this practice without generating a negative response from her. Accept it as the cost of change. Your DH should run interference with his family with a response along the lines of, "that doesn't work for us" and "just because that doesn't work for us doesn't mean we don't love Larla". Rinse, repeat. At some point, he should be prepared to say, 'I told you that doesn't work for us. Stop bringing it up." Then, any time they do, just look at them and change the subject. [/quote] BUT is it DH doing this to his sister, or his wife who has decided for the both of them that the family plans are now only to be their family, and not his family. Wedge driver. [/quote] Literally from the OP: “ Both DH and I are starting to get tired of this arrangement.”[/quote] Don’t waste your time. I recognize these trolls from other threads. [/quote]
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