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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Maybe this was mentioned but I didn't see it...I'm curious to know if OP has children (and if so many how many and how old), what she looks like (height, weight, skin, hair, etc...), and what she does and how much money she makes. And that's assuming these are high value guys....

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OP here. I have kids in elementary school but I do not see how that is relevant: dating and kids are separate. 
I look younger than my age and have a nice body. I do not know why my salary is relevant but around 175-200 depending on the year.
All men who asked me out for Sat night have  graduate degrees (engineer, doctor, lawyer/entrepreneur and tech). None are divorced.[/quote]

The fact that none of these guys are divorced is not a good thing. For me it’s a red flag if a guy is in his late 40s and unmarried, usually signifies that he is either a player, has commitment issues, is too picky, Or just has major issues. It is pretty rare to find accomplished guys in their late 40s who have never been married.[/quote]

I never said late 40s. I date mid to late 30s. Not a red flag to be single. It is not 20 years ago. [/quote]
DP.. my DH was almost 40 when we got married.  This was and is his first marriage.  He had been in LTR before me, but neither of them were interested in being married.  DH fell for me hard, and he knew that one day I wanted to get married, not necessarily to him, but I'm a bit old fashioned and believe in marriage.

So, we got married after like 18months of dating. DH said he knew I was the one after six months. I don't know if DH would've ever gotten married if we hadn't met,   but he does like being in a LTR; he just didn't see the point of marriage up until that point.

So, I don't think a man not being married by late 30s or 40s is a red flag.  Sometimes, it's the timing plus the right person that makes all the difference.

We have been married now for 20 years, two kids. Generally, a happy marriage.[/quote]

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