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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]40 year old here .. got hit on by some MIT & Harvard students from Australia. Although I’m not interested is parting with my money and I don’t have issues ego wise— this was actually really flattering. They were handsome, foreign, and super smart. I’m a black woman( the least desirable) so was really flattered even though it was all rooted in sexual desire. Who cares— I was still wanted. 😂 they all got a no from me.
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Black women are [b]very[/b] desirable.
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Yeah, f that Ok Cupid study full of absolute crap. Black women are 🔥[/quote]

I’m the 8:13pm poster( black female 40) Maybe I haven’t felt desirable in DC and I try to show up at places like Barcelona wine bar for example. No luck. Men stare- but I don’t get small talk or engagement. I was on the apps but didn’t get much or traction ( swipes/convo/ people barely wanted to meet in person). I think I’m attractive but what I experienced with the Australian students was full on flirting, interest, request for my Instagram and number. I try to approach men in the wild  but it tends to be dead on arrival and I worry I’m stepping on some toes ( a wife or partner I’m not aware of).  But these were 23 year old kids and rather gutsy ( YOLO vibes). I’ve been in DC and have never been hit on like that. That was really refreshing and flattering. I’m not sure where to find a date but when I’m not raising my child or working — I am making solid attempts to go out. I applaud the abundance mentality of the OP. [/quote]

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