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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is it outdated to look down on lazy people? Men or women. Being a stay at home parent is a lot of work. Once kids go to school, it's really not.[/quote]

Because working hard is not good.

It’s actually stupid to “work hard” as a SAHP too. Get help, make friends and do play dates, build a community around you… many hands make for light work.

Working “hard” is not a quality to revere.[/quote]

Way to sidestep the question. 
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Because if they can afford it who cares. I only look down on able bodied people who steal or live off the dole.

The most lazy people are innovative.[/quote]

Thinking and planning is not being lazy. Someone who is innovative eventually has something to show for it. You can't be innovative about nothing. A lazy person has nothing to show for their laziness.[/quote]

That’s not true most innovators have 1 innovation and it’s usually yo make life easier, lazier.

Most artist have few works or times of innovation.

Most are lazy.[/quote]

Not sure where you are getting your info about "most innovators" and "most artists." I know of one lazy "musician" who has claimed his entire adult life that music is his calling while being supported by others -- meanwhile he doesn't write or play music, or even listen to it. He's not even proficient on any one instrument. That is just manipulative. And lazy. I've known real musicians who played in the basement for 10 hours a day. Fine, be supported by someone else if you're that passionate. They eventually got paying gigs -- because they WANTED to play music. Not just sit around and use it as an excuse to be lazy. Most people grow out of that, or get kicked out into the work-a-day world against their will.

Real artists produce work. Real musicians play music, or produce music. Etc. Daydreaming and air guitar don't justify being supported by someone else.[/quote]

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