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1. Have you spoken to him about it?

2. Have you explored other options? Anal, oral, tantric, etc?

[b]Or do you just complain on the internet[/b]?[/quote]

This was uncalled for.  I am not just "complaining on the internet." I came asking if anyone had any suggestions for why sex could still be so painful and someone brought up a condition that I'd never heard of. I believe investigating this is an excellent starting point for me.  And yes, my husband knows all this. He was the one who looked at me shortly after I delivered and told me that my stitches were coming loose; he's seen how they healed improperly.  We looked up info on vulvodynia together and he is just as excited/hopeful that I at least may start to understand a very painful and frustrating problem.  If you could get past the emotional and physical issue of unbearably painful sex, than more power to you. I can not, and fortunately my husband is sympathetic and understanding.[/quote]

I apologize, that was rude. Yeah, I think that you are different to a lot of these other WS because you acknowledge there is a problem, instead of pretending everything is fine and it's the fault of the high libido spouse. Hope everything works out alright.

One thing I'll say in relation to your other thread is that, you indicated that you've never heard of vulvodynia etc, and doctors are brushing you off - you really need to get more educated yourself about your body. Doctors shouldn't just be believed outright. Get second opinions, do online research, buy OBOS, etc, go to specialists. Often people go to a general practitioner who knows very little and get brushed off. Don't just put up with it or be made to believe you should put up with it. [/quote]

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