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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She only _thought_ I was a dud. I was a winner all along, and she was and continues to be a loser.

My income is up 40 percent, and I've slept with a couple of dozen women who are 10-30 years younger than me since the divorce.

I've made two major mistakes in life: getting married, and having children. [/quote]

Sleeping around isn't enviable.

If the only women you can date are 10-30 years younger than you, then you have some serious introspection overdue. Why don't you get along with women your own age? Are you so emotionally immature that you want to date somebody 30 years younger than you? I am really no interested in the people who are my children's age as potential sexual and emotional partners - we are in different phases of life.

I do feel sorry for your children, but I understand why they were a mistake for you, as you sound as if you are not emotionally capable of being a full adult.[/quote]

LMAO the inevitable efforts of older women to shame men who date younger women. He's doing what he wants to do, the women he's dating are doing what they want to do, what business is it of yours?[/quote]

Um ... he brought it up as a topic of conversation? He was pretty proud of himself and invited responses? That's about how much business it is of mine. And as part of that conversation I think it's fair to let him know that money and younger women doesn't magically transform him from being a dud into a dude (actually, it's the silent e that does that, but maybe that is for a different conversation).

People 30 years younger than me are 21. I have nothing in common with them.  I have a serious appreciation of and attraction to their bodies, but everything else?? really, no attraction at all.[/quote]

A dud is not attractive to anyone. He is not a dud.

If the definition of a dud is "a guy who is not attractive to me but is attractive to other women" then this is a pretty useless thread. What do duds do when they get divorced from women who are no longer attracted to them? Gee they go find a woman who [i]is [/i]attracted to them, and it really isn't very hard given that he's really only a dud as far as his XW is concerned.[/quote]

DP. This thread is about a "dud husband." We're not talking about someone being a total dud in life. If your goal is to have sex with lots of women, and you achieve that goal, great -- I'm happy for you.

But the PP was a father who said he regretted marrying or having kids. That 100% makes him a dud husband -- would you want to be married to and co-parenting with someone who regretted your entire life together? No.

It is irrelevant if has sex with lots of women now, of any age. When he was married, his wife wasn't sitting around thinking "gosh, why doesn't my dud husband catch more tail? he could be a real stud if he just applied himself more to attracting and sleeping with college girls." She was thinking "wow my husband is an a$$hole who resents me and our children, never does anything around the house, and just generally makes our life together unpleasant." A dud, if you will.

This thread is not about who can sleep with the most college co-eds. That's not what anyone is looking for in a husband![/quote]

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