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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve known a couple of these guys through work.  In my experience, they try to look for much younger women to hook up with.  A surprising number fall for catfishing scams, two were fired for sexual harassment in the workplace, and a couple remarried a much younger woman and started a second, younger family.  [/quote]

Uhhhh... any guy who can hook up with or marry a much younger woman is NOT a dud.[/quote]

Oh yeah?  So, by your definition, any guy in his forties that your college age daughter decides to date is, by definition, a great guy?  She’s got your approval?[/quote]

Whatever you may think about it morally, the fact is that a guy in his forties who can attract a college girl is NOT a dud. In fact he has to be exceptionally attractive in some way in order to get her interest at all.[/quote]

I think you didn’t have any platonic female friends in your college years. If you did you’d know a lot more about what kind of 30 and 40 somethings who sniffed around girls that age, and what the well-adjusted girls thought of them. The thing that was attractive about them was usually love bombing and manipulation. [/quote]

Somehow he's attracting them wrong  :roll: and they're wrong for being attracted.  :roll: Whatever.

But that doesn't change the fact that he is not a dud. [/quote]

Serial killers often had many girlfriends out of prison and even more behind bars. You have one bizarre definition of “dud.” By “dud” I mean “not a good guy,” not “manifestly repelling to all women no matter how disturbed the women are.” Maybe we can call them “losers” instead? Will that work for you?[/quote]

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