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[quote=Anonymous][quote]It is just abominably selfish and psychotic to do this. Can you imagine breaking up another family and destroying children's lives because of some misplaced moralism? Half of people cheat. We need to do better at understanding our own relationships, problems, failings, and societal constructs before we go nuclear.

I personally would not want to know if DH cheated because I would never get over it. If it's over and done with, and we can find a way to move on, I would rather fly blind. It doesn't mean my life is a lie. I have a rich inner life and outer life without DH and I don't need to share everything with him. Sure, sleeping around is a betrayal, but disclosing only leads to pain and destruction. Think before you act.[/quote]

How could you possibly think the selfish and psychotic person in this scenario is the betrayed spouse??  The person responsible for breaking up the family - if that happens - is the parent who chose to betray the family.  It’s great that you think burying your head in the sand is the solution to any issue, but many people disagree.  That’s not “misplaced moralism,” it’s honesty.  IMO, if a spouse cheats and it goes undisclosed, that marriage is definitely mired in a lie.  About the only thing in your crazy, nonsensical post that makes sense is that people should think before they act - and cheaters should think about the potential pain and destruction their actions might engender before acting on their impulses and blowing through boundaries.

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