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Reply to "I regret having kids. I don't like being a mom. And it's affecting my marriage"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm asking out of genuine curiosity, no offense intended: OP, if you hate parenting, why did you have the second child? It seems like that only make things harder, no? [/quote] Not OP, but Don’t ask stupid questions like that because it’s irrelevant. Could’ve been unplanned, it could’ve been she wanted a sibling for the child, it could’ve been the other parent wanted a child—none of it matters. For example I know somebody who had unexpected twins at 45; if she said that it was hard raising the kids the last thing I would say is well why did you have them? She didn’t plan to… just because you don’t plan them, doesn’t mean you aren’t allowed to find it hard. Even bringing up the question of “why” is judgmental and not nice and irrelevant. It’s only done to make a person feel bad. Not a useful comment.[/quote]
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