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Reply to "I regret having kids. I don't like being a mom. And it's affecting my marriage"
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[quote=Anonymous]I feel similarly to you, OP. I have two mid elementary aged kids. I liked the baby stage well enough with one, but then my second came and she was colicky and screams through toddlerhood and it was just so hard. Now my kids speak to each other with venom and fight all the time and I hate living in a home with all this nastiness and negativity. I try to keep patient, model kindness, give them a chance to try again when they say something nasty and tell them continually “we don’t talk to each other like that”, but it’s awful. It triggers the hell out of me. We al need therapy but we don’t have the time or means and of course DH thinks therapy is shameful if we need it. Effing great times over here. My poor kids are going to be raised in a sad and stressed home just like I was and it sucks. [/quote]
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