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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I consider it disrespectful and downright angering to experience when you are the spouse that has to deal with it. I think those who engage are being disrespectful. However, I’ve noticed DCUM doesn’t care in general with flirtation. Me, It’s not cheating but it’s inappropriate. Yes, you are married and not dead  but you are married to 1 woman and need to focus your attention on her and making her feel comfortable. But this is just my humble opinion.[/quote]

Yeah no. I'm a woman and I will mildly flirt with someone. If my husband wants to do the same, it's fine by me. With boundaries and trust, there's nothing inappropriate about it.
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What is the purpose of flirting, especially if you are married?[/quote]

A little buzz of excitement and chemistry. It’s like if you are all dressed up at an event and you notice a handsome man subtly checking you out. It’s flattering and a little exciting. You would never want it to go anywhere and the man sees you are there with your husband so he’s not going to try anything (unless he’s a creep) but it still feels good. [/quote]

People who need this validation have serious issues. [/quote]

I don’t know if I really believe people get all done up for big events just to look good for their spouses. People find positive attention from a person they are attracted to flattering. This doesn’t mean anyone would or should act on it but I’m not buying that people put extra effort into their appearance hoping no one but their partner will notice them. [/quote]

I think the standard dodge is that they dress sexy "for themselves." Which is clearly bullshit because they aren't getting all dolled up to sit around at home. They want romantic/sexual attention from members of the opposite sex. Even if they intend to stop well short of any actual penetration. [/quote]

No, they are going to an event and seeking to present themselves in a manner appropriate to the event. Incels think they are doing it for attention.[/quote]

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