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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I consider it disrespectful and downright angering to experience when you are the spouse that has to deal with it. I think those who engage are being disrespectful. However, I’ve noticed DCUM doesn’t care in general with flirtation. Me, It’s not cheating but it’s inappropriate. Yes, you are married and not dead  but you are married to 1 woman and need to focus your attention on her and making her feel comfortable. But this is just my humble opinion.[/quote]

Yeah no. I'm a woman and I will mildly flirt with someone. If my husband wants to do the same, it's fine by me. With boundaries and trust, there's nothing inappropriate about it.
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What is the purpose of flirting, especially if you are married?[/quote]

A little buzz of excitement and chemistry. It’s like if you are all dressed up at an event and you notice a handsome man subtly checking you out. It’s flattering and a little exciting. You would never want it to go anywhere and the man sees you are there with your husband so he’s not going to try anything (unless he’s a creep) but it still feels good. [/quote]

People who need this validation have serious issues. [/quote]

Yeah sure whatever. DP but I'm not made of stone! When the starbucks barista and I have a little unexpected flirt vibe it can make my afternoon! Means absolutely nothing except that I was noticed and it feels good to be noticed. It's not that deep lady. People do it because it feels good and is harmless. I'd never cheat on my DH in a MILLION years, he flirts with me too! But just because I'm married doesn't mean I'm dead. Would you really want to know that only one person in the entire world found you attractive? Because that sounds depressing AF to me.

But as others have said, there is a line and you know if you're crossing it. A little witty repartee and fun eye contact with the waiter is one thing, talking to some dude at a bar for an hour is another. [/quote]

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