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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. A little more info:

Wedding’s in 4 months — tiny 30 guest affair. She’s estranged from literally everyone else in our family. She and I were actually estranged for a long time too. We only just got back after she reached out to me pretty recently with a whole story about how she missed me. Then she just so happened to ask me to be MOH shortly after. Her angle was really obvious to me. She needs a relative to avoid being embarrassed at her wedding. Even my husband said ‘she’s using you’ and he hardly notices anything.

It’s jumping out to me that she still doesn’t like me very much. She seethes a lot and comes off as if she’s holding back her personality just to get to the wedding. Using people is kinda her lifelong M.O. She’s done a bunch of other stuff during wedding planning that I can’t even get into right now. I’ve been trying to be the bigger person, but she’s making it hard.

I was hoping she’d sleep on the bridesmaid convo, realize how nasty she was, and then call me back to talk. Nada. She hasn’t changed a bit. I don’t know how to clear the air with her and I know she’ll be really haughty if I even try.

So, how do I get out of this MOH situation? If she’s nasty about that, which she will be, do I skip the wedding? I don’t want to be totally estranged from her, but she’s a very all or nothing kind of person who doesn’t value relationships.

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STOP.  BEING.  AN.  EFFING.  DOORMAT![/quote]

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