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Reply to "If you forgave infidelity, how did you do it?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote]please don't. She's an affair apologist and implies the marriage or the BS, had something to do with it. Many people believe that the marriage had something to do with the cheating. Yes, there are some men and women who will cheat no matter what and have no morals. But there are others who are absolutely cheating in response to a bad marriage and underlying problems. I know it’s hard to acknowledge this, but it’s the truth.[/quote] A marriage, even a bad one, does not cause someone to cheat. Lack of boundaries and poor coping skills does. Both parties are in the same (bad) marriage, only one deals with it by cheating (and then trying to blame the marriage). Cheating "in response to a bad marriage and underlying problems" is STILL the cheater's fault - they have other choices, including leaving the marriage. Cheaters need to fix their own character defects. And Esther Perel is a cheater's apologist.[/quote]
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