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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Fly in a Grandparent who is reliable and can drive. Some love this stuff. [/quote] My mom would be willing, but DH hates me asking her for help like this ("don't make your life someone else's problem"), so that's an option here, unfortunately. And I get it. He thinks I'm putting my job before the kids, which yes, is horrible of me.[/quote] Why are you such a doormat?? Why does he get to make all the decisions??[/quote] I keep thinking about this thread and picturing how I would feel if my daughter being told (and apparently believing) that she is putting work ahead of her kids because she can’t make some bizarre camp work. And I am willing to help but she can’t ask me because she has to solve her own problems (and those her husband creates and then ignores). It’s just really upsetting. OP the way he is treating you is not normal and it’s not ok. Why is he sabotaging your job and trying to humiliate you for working? And isolating you from your mom? My kids are so young but I fully intend to be a grandma who comes and enjoys my grandkids and helps my daughter out. You are not solely responsible for raising your kids weather you work or not. If he won’t help he should at least not prevent you from getting other help. [/quote]
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