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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Update: we broke up. I talked to him and he just was completely minimizing my concerns while also not offering to do anything to meet me halfway. He basically kept saying everything will work out, don’t worry about it. I realized he doesn’t understand my way of thinking at all. Also realized he’s pretty selfish and lacking in empathy. I am so sad but I know it’s probably for the best. Thank you all for your great advice.[/quote]

Next time try to date someone closer to your own stage of life (still having goals, aspirations, possibly open to relocate and travel more...)
Its not just about feelings, but being on the same orbit in life as well for LTR to work out [/quote]
OP here. I think I’m done with dating for a good long time. I’m going to save up as much money as I can (not out of greed, as my exBF told me in our last conversation, but because I want to have a secure future). I’m also going to travel some during vacations from work and enjoy my single life![/quote]

Good idea OP. Make a retirement plan now, with a financial advisor and stick with it. If you enjoy travel, do it now while you are still healthy and mobile.
Resist returning to him just because you’re sad- of course it’s sad. You had imagined a future with him, but it isn’t a good fit for either of you. Good luck![/quote]

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