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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are both in your 40’s?!? No one has time to wait on the sexual chemistry. I wouldn’t wait for you and I am a female. What exactly is the boyfriend/girlfriend title doing for you that makes it ok to have sex?[/quote]

Not OP, but:[b] Some people actually want sex with a person they love, or at least care enough about to be vulnerable not just physically but also emotionally. Some people want sex to be part of a relationship that has much more than sex in it. [/b]DCUM firmly believes in "if you don't have sex by the third date/fifth date/three months/whatever time frame I set," you are frigid or weird. Others focus on how sex is a neeeeeeeed that must be met even if it requires a paid stranger....

OP, I don't know if you already had sex with him or not by this point, but: There is nothing wrong, weird or frigid about wanting sex on your terms and having terms that include sex in the context of a larger relationship. Otherwise it's just a screw, and the partner could be a random you picked up in a bar. Having sex with someone your'e dating, before you're ready and fully willing, is wrong for me and sounds like it's wrong for you. [/quote]
I mean this is nice and all but clearly you missed that OP is doing everything but PIV. So she’s not needing love, commitment, or a strong emotional connection.[/quote]

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