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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]Except when you get married you normally promise in front of God and your families to be faithful.
You don’t promise to be horny.
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Church weddings are on the decline: https://www.startribune.com/church-weddings-are-on-the-decline/511981072/#:~:text=Religious%20institutions%20hosted%20only%2022,from%2041%20percent%20in%202009.

They now represent much less than 50% of all weddings.  So, no you normally do not promise in front of God.

Yes, a marriage vow carries the expectation that both parties will have sex with each other.

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This is such a bs reasoning.   I guess the advice for anyone before getting married is to discuss if cheating is OK for either of the spouse.  If that expectation is clearly stated before marriage, that is the rule that should be followed.  If you think that men need to set an expectation of sex x times per week always, you should discuss that with your partner before getting engaged/married.

The thing is most people have discussed cheating at some point in their relationship and their thoughts on it are pretty clearly understood before getting married even if vows do not state anything about fidelity.  If your spouse didn't mind you cheating, that's great.  It's not cheating anymore.  If she didn't accept cheating in a partner, your reasoning is out the window and is not acceptable.  BTW, if your wife agreed to sex x times a week before marriage and it's not happening that frequently, it's still not a reason for cheating.  It is absolutely a reason for divorce though.    [/quote]

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