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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lots of people in my parents area are like this.  They have a stay at home spouse or she also makes $50k (or less).  They live in cheap housing, maybe a double wide, use public school and Maine’s state health care.  They supplement with income from plowing drive ways or summer tourist related jobs or hunting their own meat.  They don’t worry about dental care.   [/quote]

Love the idea that anyone making less than six figures has to live in a trailer, hunt, and doesn't visit the dentist. This thread is so out of touch it's amazing. [/quote]

Seriously. The vast majority of us, even in DC, do not make 6 figures. Maybe we live in an apartment/condo/townhouse and can't afford private schools, overseas vacations, or much in the way of college/retirement savings, but we get by just fine. And we have great teeth.  :lol: Not everyone is a shallow social striver. Some of us just marry the people we love. [/quote]

That’s why I find this thread fascinating. It’s as if a few posters here haven’t had the opportunity to see real life. You don’t need massive salaries to live comfortably. Just live within your means. A family with two 5-figure earners can save for retirement, for children’s college educations, for vacations, etc. Perhaps the vacation is to the beach and not Bora Bora, but that’s okay. Perhaps the college is an in-state school, but that’s also okay. [/quote]

A lot of dual working families have multiple problems making that work. And  they are struggling. It also completely matters if the person is 25 or 55. None of this is being discussed.[/quote]

I’m sure some do. Many don’t. It’s about living within your means. When we searched for a home, we looked for neighborhoods we could comfortably afford. We make sound financial choices and don’t waste money on frivolous things we don’t need. We aren’t struggling. We have two high school-aged students. We’ve saved enough (without help) that they should be able to attend a state school with no loans. We save for retirement. Sure, we won’t be retiring to Banff, but we won’t suffer. If you live within your means and avoid the “keeping up with the Joneses” mentality, it can be done.[/quote]

Also does your spouse make $50k now and you also? This is what the question is. Not did your spouse make $50k 20 years ago.[/quote]

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