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[quote=Anonymous]Only you should communicate with your parents and he can be the sole communicator to his parents.

One of the posts linked was from one month ago. Your DH needs more time to process the apology and also to get past his own feelings of insecurity that he “let” himself be treated that way. Because that is how he feels and that is why this issue enrages him. So take a break from your parents for a few months. Just don’t get together with them, be busy, find stuff to do as a couple, start to make your own family life - just the two of you

Your DH might seriously need to consider fast acting anxiety meds for dealing with your parents at least for a while. Less anxiety will help him to be able to respond calmly in the moment and stop the cycle of inner berating leading to the belated anger.

If you guys can’t really make changes in this situation in the next year, seriously consider if divorcing might be the best path for both of you so that you are free to find someone else better suited for each of you. Don’t have kids yet bc all the issues will get worse.[/quote]

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